Thursday, June 22, 2006

Who knows

Last night I let T spend the night with the boys across the street. I have talked to the mom a few different times and nothing sent up red flags.

T came home and J noticed that he smelled like pot. Well T wasn't the one doing it, he has a very rigid attitude about drugs. The only person he saw smoking was a grandfather who came by for awhile. I figure the mom probably did some after she sent the boys down for the night. I'm torn about this issue. I know a lot of people don't think pot is a big deal but I would rather that she hadn't done it on a night when there was a guest in the house. I hate that T was around it enough to come smelling like it. And I hate that this casts doubts about what I can let the kids do with those kids because of this. And J is very very rigid about this stuff.

I have been sick all day and it really bothers me that J never even bothered to ask me how I was doing when he left for school. Gee, makes me feel important.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

ITA with KimD...it is their business until MY child is in their home.
So not cool.
And enough smoked to have left T smelling like it?!?! That had to have been either a lot or in close quarters.

Willow said...

Well their house is very very small but I'm wondering if there are other things it could be that might smell like pot. I just don't know. For now, we just agree that the kids won't be spending the night there. They can play with the kids but we are talking with T about why we are concerned.