No I haven't forgotten to blog. I'm actually been working on eating some anger. I won't win any ground by expressing to anyone how I really feel about some things at work. So I'm taking the high road and just concentrating on getting my work done. Somewhere along the line I have pissed someone off. She is leaving but she is working on making me look and feel bad. If I defend myself against this sneak attack, I'm making excuses. I'm kinda seeing that my boss is getting the hint so my best course is to just let the person bury herself. She will be gone in Jan no matter what.
Part of what really burns me is that I have defended her so many times when people have badmouthed her. She didn't use to be this way towards me. I'm finding out that she has resented when I handled the acquisition. She didn't want to travel so it went to me because I was willing to. I'm guessing she felt passed over and then she was definitely passed over for another position (which had nothing to do with me). She is leaving to improve her education so that she is able to move forward with her career.
One of her things was that she didn't think I should get her office when she leaves. My boss was like, so who should since I have the most seniority? But apparently this person thinks that my getting the bigger office will cause hard feelings. Why? Right now, I'm the third in command in the office, I will be second after she leaves. My current office will go to the next higher person who will be thrilled with it.
Most of this shit is petty but it is the volume coming from someone I had thought of as a friend that gets to me.
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